Emotional Intervention on Sex

Emotional Intervention on Sex  

Written By: Christian Lawrence, 03/18/2013

It is candidly the best experience two people that are emotionally attached can undergo. What genuinely interests me, though, is the study of before and after that first, second, and third sexual experience. Will things, emotionally or mentally ever be the same as it was before? Scientific studies have been produced to show that when people reach an orgasm with their partner for the first time, the chemical, oxytocin, is released all over. This chemical is the main ingredient found in many anti-depressants. My argument is that if people just quit having sex, can things ever be the same between them? Imagine being sexually active with just one person for a year. Now consider the alternative of taking an anti-depressant for a year. If the first person quit having sex with their partner, and the other person quit taking the happy pill, what would happen? I've seen many cases where people get overly angry and irritated when they are turned down from sex after previously being sexual with them. Who is to blame for the all the break ups, arguments, and harassment following sexual abuse? Is it the girl for no longer wanting to have sex? Is it the chemical imbalance and lack of oxytocin in the brain from the guy? Or is either males or females to blame? It can be argued that sex does indeed change people's emotion over someone they are interested in. That's not to say this is the excuse for sexual abuse, but it can definitely be broken down into many parts that can be looked at in more detail.