So, Samantha and I haven't had any form of communication since May (4 months ago). After I found out she was cheating on me, she instantly blocked my cell phone number and blocked me on Facebook as well. Time went on, and even though it has taken me much more time to get over her than I thought, apart of me still missed her in my life, even if it wasn't as a "girlfriend". So, last week, I wrote a letter to her sister and asked her if she could send it to Samantha for me. She ensured me that she would - and she did just that.
One day later, while I was at work, my phone alerted me of a text. It was from Samantha - (Her number was still stored in my phone). Awkward, we texted back and forth for about 10-15 minutes before we just got caught up in what we were doing. About an hour later, my phone rang. It was. . . Samantha, and take in account that this was the first time I have heard her voice since May. When I answered, she asked me where she could park at because she was at my work. Shocked, I told her where to park at and she told me she would be inside to see me in a few minutes.
I came up to the information desk, which is where I was informed she was at, and poked her with a surprise "Hi"! She gave me a hug, and we just talked briefly about how things have been going. She stated that she was still with her boyfriend (the one she cheated on me with) but I then assured her from the letter that I'm not the one to judge or hold any grudges. By that time, her sister came through the front entrance, and they had to go. As she walked off almost instantly, she turned back around and made hand motions to "text me". Since last night, we've been steadily texting and carrying on conversations. I asked her to breakfast this morning, but she questioned me by saying "Isn't that considered a date?". So, we were going to after I convinced her, but this morning she called me and said she got called into work.
So overall, I'm happy that this has happend. Am I glad she cheated? No. Am I glad we broke up? No. But, am I glad I at least have her in my life? For sure! This is just who I am, and I know most people look down on me for it, but I think this is the right move.
